{"id":483,"date":"2011-11-17T13:47:00","date_gmt":"2011-11-17T21:47:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/?p=483"},"modified":"2011-11-17T13:47:00","modified_gmt":"2011-11-17T21:47:00","slug":"its-not-okay-to-say-nothing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/2011\/11\/17\/its-not-okay-to-say-nothing\/","title":{"rendered":"It&#8217;s not okay to say nothing"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I found out today how important it is to be vocal when you really believe in something.<\/p>\n<p>First some background:<\/p>\n<p>I believe that the reason that TokBox is successful right now is because we&#8217;ve built the right culture. Hiring in the Valley is a bitch, and if you aren&#8217;t careful, then you&#8217;ll hire anyone out of desperation. We&#8217;ve made that mistake before, and I&#8217;m sure we&#8217;ll do it again, but lately we haven&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>What is the crux of our culture? I think TokBox as a company is focused around building an excellent product <em>together<\/em>. There is team buy-in to our vision, strategy and execution. Buy-in doesn&#8217;t mean consensus mind you, but at the very least we force ourselves to come into a room and hear each other out before anything is committed to paper.<\/p>\n<p>At some points that community approach is challenged. People have a bad day or they fundamentally disagree with how something is being presented. It&#8217;s these days that challenge the culture hardest, and we recently had one of those days.<\/p>\n<p>It happened; we acted on it quickly, and I think that at the very least the problem has been surfaced. There is a clear chink in the armor, and that&#8217;s not going anywhere. At the end of the day, we&#8217;re all people, and the dynamics of that come into play. But in immediately responding to the situation, and vocally championing what&#8217;s right instead of what&#8217;s easy I think we took a big, big, big step in showing that our culture is sustainable.<\/p>\n<p>Good job us, and now on to the next challenge.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I found out today how important it is to be vocal when you really believe in something. First some background: I believe that the reason that TokBox is successful right now is because we&#8217;ve built the right culture. 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