{"id":664,"date":"2013-11-19T21:48:18","date_gmt":"2013-11-20T05:48:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/?p=664"},"modified":"2013-11-19T21:48:18","modified_gmt":"2013-11-20T05:48:18","slug":"good-bye-28-you-were-an-adventure","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/2013\/11\/19\/good-bye-28-you-were-an-adventure\/","title":{"rendered":"Good-bye 28. You were an adventure"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I turn 29 tomorrow, and I want to tell the story of 28 through photos. I also want to stop for a moment, and just say that I genuinely understand how lucky I am. I don&#8217;t have many friends, but the ones I have are incredible. I don&#8217;t have many passions, but the ones I do are incredibly rewarding. And I don&#8217;t have my heart in own hands, but the family that I&#8217;ve entrusted it to has done nothing but reward me for that faith. I learned all of that this past year in such unique and amazing ways. Good-bye 28. You were quite an adventure.<\/p>\n<h2>November 2012<\/h2>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_670\" style=\"width: 310px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/MG_9019.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-670\" alt=\"Birthday cake celebrating my 28th birthday in Churt, Surrey, UK\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/MG_9019-300x200.jpg?resize=300%2C200\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">Birthday cake celebrating my 28th birthday in Churt, Surrey, UK<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_666\" style=\"width: 310px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/MG_9125.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-666\" alt=\"Visiting my Uncle and his beautiful wife in Paris\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/MG_9125-300x200.jpg?resize=300%2C200\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">Visiting my Uncle and his beautiful wife in Paris<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_671\" style=\"width: 310px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/MG_9081.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-671\" alt=\"Uncle James left the US for the first time to join us in the UK and Portugal\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/MG_9081-300x200.jpg?resize=300%2C200\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">Uncle James left the US for the first time to join us in the UK and Portugal<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<h2>December 2012<\/h2>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_667\" style=\"width: 310px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/MG_9285.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-667\" alt=\"The family visited my maternal grandmother in Ankara\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/MG_9285-300x200.jpg?resize=300%2C200\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">The family visited my maternal grandmother in Ankara<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_668\" style=\"width: 310px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/MG_9323.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-668\" alt=\"Then we hopped over to Izmir to visit my paternal grandmother, aunt, and her family\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/MG_9323-300x200.jpg?resize=300%2C200\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">Then we hopped over to Izmir to visit my paternal grandmother, aunt, and her family<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_673\" style=\"width: 310px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/MG_9173.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-673\" alt=\"Went to see Stonehenge. It was massively underwhelming, but now it's done\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/MG_9173-300x200.jpg?resize=300%2C200\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">Went to see Stonehenge. It was massively underwhelming, but now it&#8217;s done<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_681\" style=\"width: 310px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_0807.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-681\" alt=\"This was my first Fairbank party. Lisa turned 40, and we school house rocked the night away\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_0807-300x225.jpg?resize=300%2C225\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">This was my first Fairbank party. Lisa turned 40, and we school house rocked the night away<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_682\" style=\"width: 310px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_0813.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-682\" alt=\"Doruk and I went to the West Brom\/Norwich game. My first EPL game! West Brom won 2-1\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_0813-300x225.jpg?resize=300%2C225\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">Doruk and I went to the West Brom\/Norwich game. My first EPL game! West Brom won 2-1<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<h2>January 2013<\/h2>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_704\" style=\"width: 310px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG-20130112-00358.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-704\" alt=\"Aydin on his annual visit to Las Vegas and San Francisco. This is one of my favorite family traditions.\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG-20130112-00358-300x225.jpg?resize=300%2C225\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">Aydin on his annual visit to Las Vegas and San Francisco. This is one of my favorite family traditions.<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<h2>April 2013<\/h2>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_676\" style=\"width: 310px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/MG_9639.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-676\" alt=\"Mommy went out of town, and we went strawberry picking!\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/MG_9639-300x200.jpg?resize=300%2C200\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">Mommy went out of town, and we went strawberry picking!<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<h2>May 2013<\/h2>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_683\" style=\"width: 310px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1117.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-683\" alt=\"We went to the Grand Canyon in a 31 foot camper. Dede came, and so did Uncle James\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1117-300x225.jpg?resize=300%2C225\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">We went to the Grand Canyon in a 31 foot camper. Dede came, and so did Uncle James<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_684\" style=\"width: 235px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1132.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-684\" alt=\"Me and my boy Luka\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1132-225x300.jpg?resize=225%2C300\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">Me and my boy Luka<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>June 2013<\/h2>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_686\" style=\"width: 310px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1187.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-686\" alt=\"Micky made Amelia an amazing &quot;Curious George&quot; cake for her 2nd birthday\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1187-300x225.jpg?resize=300%2C225\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">Micky made Amelia an amazing &#8220;Curious George&#8221; cake for her 2nd birthday<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_688\" style=\"width: 235px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1219.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-688\" alt=\"When Micky needed a documentary film maker, who else to turn to but her sister!\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1219-225x300.jpg?resize=225%2C300\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">When Micky needed a documentary film maker, who else to turn to but her sister!<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_689\" style=\"width: 310px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1241.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-689\" alt=\"We went to the Castro, and celebrated the Supreme Court reversing DoMA. What a historical moment!\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1241-300x225.jpg?resize=300%2C225\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">We went to the Castro, and celebrated the Supreme Court reversing DoMA. What a historical moment!<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_690\" style=\"width: 235px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1256.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-690\" alt=\"We saw Uncle James when we went back to NC for Alan &amp; Hannah's wedding\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1256-225x300.jpg?resize=225%2C300\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">We saw Uncle James when we went back to NC for Alan &amp; Hannah&#8217;s wedding<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_691\" style=\"width: 235px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1280.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-691\" alt=\"It was a beautiful and fun weekend\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1280-225x300.jpg?resize=225%2C300\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">It was a beautiful and fun weekend at Alan &amp; Hannah&#8217;s wedding<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<h2>July 2013<\/h2>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_677\" style=\"width: 310px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/1010038_10151598104523999_1758387854_n.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-677\" alt=\"Luka gets a kiss from his big sister!\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/1010038_10151598104523999_1758387854_n-300x225.jpg?resize=300%2C225\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">Luka gets a kiss from his big sister!<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_678\" style=\"width: 310px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/1040115_10200856016775512_1418368608_o1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-678\" alt=\"Luka's first birthday celebrated with Turks and friends from North Carolina\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/1040115_10200856016775512_1418368608_o1-300x225.jpg?resize=300%2C225\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">Luka&#8217;s first birthday celebrated with Turks and friends from North Carolina<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_680\" style=\"width: 235px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_0148.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-680\" alt=\"4th of July in Sonoma is a family tradition!\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_0148-225x300.jpg?resize=225%2C300\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">4th of July in Sonoma is a family tradition!<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_692\" style=\"width: 235px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1292.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-692\" alt=\"These two snoozers slept the whole flight back to SF\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1292-225x300.jpg?resize=225%2C300\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">These two snoozers slept the whole flight back to SF<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<h2>August 2013<\/h2>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_694\" style=\"width: 235px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1380.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-694\" alt=\"She's such a fashion forward gal!\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1380-225x300.jpg?resize=225%2C300\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">She&#8217;s such a fashion forward gal!<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_693\" style=\"width: 235px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1341.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-693\" alt=\"Amelia's digital piano in its fully wired up form\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1341-225x300.jpg?resize=225%2C300\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">Amelia&#8217;s digital piano in its fully wired up form<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<h2>September 2013<\/h2>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_687\" style=\"width: 310px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1189.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-687\" alt=\"The girls chilling in the pool in the house we rented in Carmel Valley\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1189-300x225.jpg?resize=300%2C225\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">The girls chilling in the pool at the house we rented in Carmel Valley<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_695\" style=\"width: 310px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1413.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-695\" alt=\"Our Labor Day trip with the Green family took us to Carmel Valley\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1413-300x225.jpg?resize=300%2C225\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">Our Labor Day trip with the Green family took us to Carmel Valley<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_696\" style=\"width: 235px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1418.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-696\" alt=\"There go those handsome boys again!\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1418-225x300.jpg?resize=225%2C300\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">There go those handsome boys again!<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_698\" style=\"width: 310px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1456.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-698\" alt=\"It wouldn't be a good year without a Vegas trip. Don't worry, 28 didn't disappoint.\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1456-300x225.jpg?resize=300%2C225\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">It wouldn&#8217;t be a good year without a Vegas trip. Don&#8217;t worry, 28 didn&#8217;t disappoint.<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_705\" style=\"width: 310px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/upside_down_amelia.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-705\" alt=\"Nothing better than a Skype call with Doruk upside down\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/upside_down_amelia-300x217.jpg?resize=300%2C217\" width=\"300\" height=\"217\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">Nothing better than a Skype call with Doruk upside down<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<h2>October 2013<\/h2>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_697\" style=\"width: 310px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1440.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-697\" alt=\"Painting on daddy is fun!\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1440-300x225.jpg?resize=300%2C225\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">Painting on daddy is fun!<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_706\" style=\"width: 310px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1505.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-706\" alt=\"What a game! 4-0 Real over Copenhagen. First La Liga game\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1505-300x225.jpg?resize=300%2C225\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">What a game! 4-0 Real over Copenhagen. First La Liga game<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_679\" style=\"width: 235px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/image.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-679\" alt=\"Luka the painter needs no easel for he is his own canvas\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/image-225x300.jpg?resize=225%2C300\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">Luka the painter needs no easel for he is his own canvas<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_699\" style=\"width: 310px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1620.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-699\" alt=\"First championship I've won in years... and it felt so good.\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1620-300x168.jpg?resize=300%2C168\" width=\"300\" height=\"168\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">First championship I&#8217;ve won in years&#8230; and it felt so good.<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_700\" style=\"width: 310px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1637.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-700\" alt=\"Old McDonald's farm made it to the Rainbow Family Daycare Halloween Parade\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1637-300x225.jpg?resize=300%2C225\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">Old McDonald&#8217;s farm made it to the Rainbow Family Daycare Halloween Parade<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_703\" style=\"width: 310px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_9513.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-703\" alt=\"And then the company costumes were killer as well\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_9513-300x200.jpg?resize=300%2C200\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">And then the company costumes were killer as well<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<h2>November 2013<\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div class=\"mceIEcenter\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" id=\"attachment_701\" style=\"width: 310px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1657.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-701\" alt=\"Amelia's first smore!\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1657-300x225.jpg?resize=300%2C225\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">Amelia&#8217;s first smore!<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/div>\n<h2>Final thoughts<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>A big focus for me this year was losing weight. I&#8217;ve given up soda as my New Year&#8217;s resolution, and I&#8217;ve done a pretty good job. I think this graph would concur:<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1666.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-702\" alt=\"Weight loss 2013\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_1666-300x168.jpg?resize=300%2C168\" width=\"300\" height=\"168\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The first product that I built as part of Big Fish, Big Pond was <a href=\"http:\/\/amplifize.com\">amplifize<\/a>. I really love it, and while it&#8217;s closed off to registration, the group of us who use it are pretty rabid users. Check out this graph here (November is only a partial month):<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/Screen-Shot-2013-11-19-at-8.49.05-PM.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-707\" alt=\"Monthly comments\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/Screen-Shot-2013-11-19-at-8.49.05-PM-300x181.png?resize=300%2C181\" width=\"300\" height=\"181\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The last hurdle left really is career. I didn&#8217;t get to the place where I wanted to in my career, and so the big question for me now is how do I get to that next level. It&#8217;s something that&#8217;s definitely on my mind, and a big part of what I&#8217;m going to solve in 29 going into 30.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Thanks everyone for being part of 28. Onward to 29!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I turn 29 tomorrow, and I want to tell the story of 28 through photos. I also want to stop for a moment, and just say that I genuinely understand how lucky I am. I don&#8217;t have many friends, but the ones I have are incredible. I don&#8217;t have many passions, but the ones I [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"spay_email":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false},"categories":[4,1],"tags":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pQyAq-aI","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":1771,"url":"https:\/\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/2016\/12\/16\/until-next-time-san-francisco\/","url_meta":{"origin":664,"position":0},"title":"Until next time San Francisco","date":"December 16, 2016","format":false,"excerpt":"Today, after 8.5 years, is my last day living in San Francisco\u00c2\u00a0- a city that\u00c2\u00a0gave me so much: The love of my life The birthplace of my three children The only jobs I've ever known My first major sports championship I've experienced The first home that I bought The only\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Life Updates&quot;","img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":1348,"url":"https:\/\/www.onvural.net\/melih\/thoughts\/2014\/11\/17\/3-days-til-30\/","url_meta":{"origin":664,"position":1},"title":"3 days til 30","date":"November 17, 2014","format":false,"excerpt":"Well, I've run out of ideas, and steam. 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